Yesterday I wrote of how pastor Tom Ascol, President of Founders Ministries, reviled another person by calling him μαλακοὶ (malakoi), one of the Biblical Greek words for homosexual. Since then, Ascol has responded to this accusation from me and others, warranting a brief update.
The Sin of Revilement
Firstly, Ascol claimed that he wasn’t calling Mike Cosper, Director of Media for Christianity Today, the equivalent of a slur that starts with the letter F, but that μαλακοὶ generally means an effeminate man (as if that’s any better). In his defense, he posted a screenshot of Bauer’s Lexicon, while continuing to revile his critics using immature internet lingo.
Most notably, Ascol cut off his screenshot right before the second meaning of μαλακοὶ, as it is used the only time it appears in Scripture in that declension, and the only time it describes people and not “soft clothing.”
It’s also of note that μαλακοὶ is the nominative plural form of the root word μαλακός, meaning that Ascol, by his own reasoning, technically called Cosper “effeminate men,” which adds a layer of irony to his claim that others never learned Greek. It also is another piece of circumstantial evidence that he haphazardly lifted the word from 1 Corinthians 6:9, again, the only place it appears in that declension, and in which it carries that very specific, cultural meaning. To make matters worse for Ascol, the most studied Greek scholars disagree with his interpretation of the word, as journalist Janet Mefferd showed in an extensive thread on X.
On top of that, even Ascol’s own allies originally interpreted his post as meaning this standard interpretation of the word, including his own son, Joel.

Ascol continued his reviling behavior throughout the day, often jumping in to agree with his allies and fans who derided those criticizing him. Then Associate Reformed Presbyterian Church pastor Matt Carr, who had publicly rebuked Ascol, revealed that Ascol had responded by antagonistically adding him to a list called “Malakoi bois.” This is a common tactic of the most debased anonymous accounts on X, because it doesn’t show up publicly, but appears in the target’s notifications.
Take whatever strained, reductionist definition of μαλακοὶ you want. If someone did this while representing a secular business, they'd be fired. That's not “woke” cancel culture. That's what would've happened half a century ago. It's shameful and disqualifying from a pastor. If the Southern Baptist Convention was a healthy ecclesial body, their messengers would refuse Ascol a seat at the national convention in June. I’ll eat my hat if that ever happens.
1. What is with a grown man his age and minister of the Gospel using “bois” unironically in a public setting?
2. Most people who were annoyed have taken Greek, got the reference, and knew what he was saying—I hate these little games that crowd plays treating us all like we don’t see them.
3. Thank you for pointing out his misuse of the plural—one of those “telling on yourself” moments that cracks me up.